Friday, April 30, 2010

Your Comfort Zone Defines Your Life

We al have a comfort zone whether we acknowledge it or not.

Quite simply, our comfort zone defines the limits of our lives. Although these limits (i.e., limiting beliefs) are invisible themselves they do have VERY visible effects. Becuase of this you can "reverse engineer" to find out what your comfort zone is. We can find out what our TRUE beliefs are, rather than what we SAY they are (i.e., the kind of stuff people spout off in seminars to make them look good in front of others or what they WANT to believe they believe). There is often a very huge difference.

So how do we determine what our true beliefs are?

Simple. If you want to know your comfort zone is (i.e., your TRUE beliefs) look at your results and then from your results look at the actions that produced these results. Once you know the REAL actions you are taking consistently that produce these results you can then ask yourself questions like:

What would I have to believe to take these actions?
Based on my actions, what are my beliefs?

By asking these, and similiar questions, about any area of your life you can determine your REAL set of beliefs for this area (ex. money, relationships, health, career, etc.). YOUR BELIEFS LEAVE CLUES IN YOUR ACTIONS.

Once you have discovered what beliefs were required to produce the actions and thus the results you have determined your comfort zone in an area of your life.

And this is why I say that your comfort zone (your true set of beliefs) determines your life (or at least, your quality of life).

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