Random Notes 11/2

Be kind to yourself. Don't compare yourself to others. That is comparing apples to oranges. If you aren't told and you don't figure it out you won't know it. That is why education is so important. The last thing an abuser wants is for you to figure out that you are being abused. They don't want to admit that they don't know. That would open up a debate that they don't want to open. Stop allowing others to define you- it never benefits you. You set yourself up when you don't rever yourself. Until you revere yourself you won't see the possibilities, think the thoughts or take the actions that can result in success. Entitlement is a filter. It limits what you notice (Rectigular Activation System), what you think, what you say and thus what you ultimately do.